Now, I'm not very good when it comes to the subject of dying. In fact, I'm a wreck. I once took a "Death and Dying" course as part of my psychology major. I flunked the class because I stopped going to it; I just couldn't handle all that talk about dying! But I've learned over the years that there are some issues we must face, make decisions about and prepare for, whether we're comfortable or not.
I have four children, now all grown, and I've recently updated my estate planning documents. Should I pass away or become unable to handle my affairs, arrangements have been made. When the kids were small I had plans in place, and included contingencies for their care by trusted people who knew them well.
But my pets? Much less so. Even for the famous pets that have made the news because of huge sums of inheritance left in their humans' wills for the pets themselves, the need for their emotional well-being still exists. Each dog is a unique individual, with needs, desires, even fears that only you may know about.
Having worked with cats that were either rescued or relinquished, I saw firsthand the sadness, confusion, even depression these precious animals experienced. Ask anyone who spends time with these pets, they'll tell you the same. It's not just humans who feel a great loss when they lose those they've had a close bond with. It breaks my heart to imagine that might be the scenario for my beloved pets one day.
As a foster mom, I know the importance of knowing the details of a pet's preferences, needs, quirks, likes and dislikes, known vocabulary. I've seen how it has helped provide for the best fit for both pet and adoptive family, and afforded the most consistency for the pet in such a time of great upheaval in its life.
My copy of "If I Should Die Before My Dog--" is going to go right with the paperwork that entails my will and other legal documents that have been prepared in the event of my passing or inability to manage things. Having said that, I'm now going to go get the tissues my leaky eyes have sorely needed while reading through and filling out the book.
While no one will ever take the place of you in your pet's life, at least whoever takes over for you will have the information needed to make daily life as comfortable as possible. This book is an important part of being a pet parent and providing the best for your dog.
p.s. - I have it on good authority that there are both cat and horse versions of this book coming out soon.
A Dog Lovers lasting guide.......A beautifully illustrated interactive book that one fills in all of the information about their dogs life in the event they can no longer care for them to help ensure your pets are taken care of.
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I received this book to review through Beck Valley Books Book Tours, all the opinions above are 100% my own.
But my pets? Much less so. Even for the famous pets that have made the news because of huge sums of inheritance left in their humans' wills for the pets themselves, the need for their emotional well-being still exists. Each dog is a unique individual, with needs, desires, even fears that only you may know about.
Having worked with cats that were either rescued or relinquished, I saw firsthand the sadness, confusion, even depression these precious animals experienced. Ask anyone who spends time with these pets, they'll tell you the same. It's not just humans who feel a great loss when they lose those they've had a close bond with. It breaks my heart to imagine that might be the scenario for my beloved pets one day.
As a foster mom, I know the importance of knowing the details of a pet's preferences, needs, quirks, likes and dislikes, known vocabulary. I've seen how it has helped provide for the best fit for both pet and adoptive family, and afforded the most consistency for the pet in such a time of great upheaval in its life.
My copy of "If I Should Die Before My Dog--" is going to go right with the paperwork that entails my will and other legal documents that have been prepared in the event of my passing or inability to manage things. Having said that, I'm now going to go get the tissues my leaky eyes have sorely needed while reading through and filling out the book.
While no one will ever take the place of you in your pet's life, at least whoever takes over for you will have the information needed to make daily life as comfortable as possible. This book is an important part of being a pet parent and providing the best for your dog.
p.s. - I have it on good authority that there are both cat and horse versions of this book coming out soon.
A thought provoking check list for dog lovers, who unfortunately and with much sadness can no longer take care of their dog.
This book will assist those who want to prepare for their dogs future in an easy to use format that will guide them through the process of telling the "story" of their dogs life, for their pets "Next Guardian".
None of us can predict the future, but in the event situations arise such as death, health impairment or left with no other choice but to give them up, this book will be there to assist your beloved pet with the transition from one home to another.
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| Authors Joe and Cathy Connolly |
Joe and Cathy Connolly have spent a lifetime owning, training and caring for dogs. Cathy grew up with a Collie breeder, dog groomer and dog handler while attending many different dog shows and eventually went on to work with other breeders as she grew older. They live in beautiful Northern Michigan with their 3 furry four legged children, one large dog, one small dog and the entire family is supervised by one bossy calico cat.
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I received this book to review through Beck Valley Books Book Tours, all the opinions above are 100% my own.
Hi Y'all!
ReplyDeleteThis is a great book and it is something that my owners have taken care of for me...
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Hawk aka BrownDog
Hi Kim and CindyLu,
ReplyDeleteThat's a very important book and thankfully, we have contingency plans for Penny in the case of my demise. We have a number of options. Of course, not everybody would have such options and that book sounds like a valuable resource.
Gary
Like you it is something we dreaded and these thoughts are quickly put in the "it will work out" box. But as you say it "is an important part of being a pet parent and providing the best for your dog". Thanks for the wake-up call Kim and Cindy Lu.
ReplyDeleteThis book really makes you think and without it so many pets could be left with their new owners having no knowledge of them.
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